In The End, Only Kindness Matters
It is VITALLY important to be courteous to people. Thoughtlessness, brusqueness, insufficient appreciation when someone has made an effort to be helpful - these are all deeply and profoundly hurtful, and unacceptable. They are also rarely the best way to get something out of someone incidentally; not that this is the point.
Do I fall short myself sometimes? Certainly.
But there are going to be a few changes around here. My tolerance of rudeness - towards myself and people I care about - is henceforth going to be Absolute Zero. And no-one in my life gets a free pass, no matter who they are.
That's it.

